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Hi all, I just recently understood what I’m missing in my dating life.

When I start getting to know (many or most) men initially within 1-4 dates either want to kiss, invite me to their place or move things quicker than I’m ready to and I feel rushed, so I just end up leaving things. I want to be able to get to know someone slowly, no rush, no pressure into escalating things quicker. And that patience somehow makes me want to also move towards them.

I just keep getting this dynamic and i wonder if the pace that I would like to have in all this is rarer than i thought, or there are men that get excited about the anticipation and actually savouring the process without aggressively skipping parts of it.

I know this might be controversial or bring polemics into what do I mean by attraction, that these men only want one thing or are evil, and so forth. But what I’m talking is courting, slow pace and patience in modern dating. Does that still exist?